Men are, by nature, visual creatures. Ideas come to them primarily through mental images rather than words. Men often give driving directions by observable landmarks before mentioning actual street names. They are simple beings who accept at face-value what is presented to their senses. For instance, for a man, pants are just pants. He wears them until they’re worn too thin, then he gives them to a thrift store so another guy can wear them until they’re threadbare.

Women tend to find more meaning in physical appearance- An outfit isn’t just something she wears. It expresses something about her personality. It grabs the attention of possible suitors. It boosts her confidence. When two women wear the same outfit at a party, it’s almost taken as an insult: “She’s wearing MY dress!” When two men wear the same outfit, it’s an opportunity to bond.

This male/female fashion dichotomy gives rise to an unspoken miscommunication. Women want to be beautiful. They want men to see them for themselves, to see that they are a work of art beyond comprehension. But in our sex-glutted society, beauty has been replaced with raw eroticism. To a man (remember, he is a simple creature), super low-cut women’s fashion tops do not convey “I am a captivating princess.” They convey, “Look at my rack.”

Men are good at getting things done. To get things done, they need tools. When a woman reveals too much of her skin, the man’s visually-sensitive brain will interpret that as “sex.” And in order to accomplish “sex,” he will use this “tool,” the woman. Hence, where love should be, the woman is used by the man. She is left with deep wounds, resentment, and a negative attitude toward men in general.

Women are meant to be mysterious. That is why men love them: They are awed by these illustrious angels, and will do anything for them by the merit of that awe. Modest womens clothing presents this option. It doesn’t have to be prudish, plain, or homely. It can accentuate the best parts of a woman’s body without giving away the mystery.

A more modest variety of women’s fashion tops not only adds something extra to women’s wardrobes. It gives them the option to express as they are, instead of as sexual objects. If men see that women want to be mysterious, but beautifully so, they will eventually treat them so. Ultimately, women are more powerful than men, because they can guide men to do what is right. That begins when women present themselves to men as beings of beauty instead of objects of base pleasure.